Showing posts with label date rape. Show all posts
Showing posts with label date rape. Show all posts

Monday, March 29, 2010

Ick.

 Via Jezebel.

An opinion columnist at American University has written a piece attacking feminists and queer activists as overly sensitive and anti-sex, comparing them inexplicably to the "great religions of the world." 

The anti-sex thing might actually makes some sense, given that his own view of being pro-sex somehow equates with being pro-date rape. Date-rape and consent, he argues are too loose of concepts to be applied to "the sexual arena" and "the volatility of its practice."

Helpfully, he breaks it down further: "There's rape and there's not rape." 
"Rape," apparently means a violent attacker jumping out of the bushes, "not rape" seems to be just about anything else. A woman drinking alcohol and going to a man's room is "indicating" consent to sex (emphasis mine). Sex is not about "contract-signing" (read: normal, healthy communication between partners, like, "Is this okay?"); rather, it is about "control" and "surrender."

O, rlly? Ew. 

At least you have a handy example next time someone asks you what rape culture is or why feminism still matters.